Make Christ the center of the marriage
God instituted marriage and so in him all thing are made perfect. To every existing art, the is an architect and he can best explain the art of his handy work. Therefore, God is the only manual of marriage. In him, only the joy and the fulfillment of marriage is found. To have access to God you need Christ . Without Christ, in your life, God is far from your reach.
May be you are already a Christian, it does not guaranty that Christ is in your marriage. He would only take charge of the marriage if you invite him in. Christian couples would have to willing open up their marriage to Christ by confessing him lord over their marriage. Allow Him to have his authority established in the marriage, let Him lead and you do the following, let His influence have the greater impact on your marriage through the spirit.
Cast all your cares and burdens on him; think of them no more for he is faithful to do that which you have asked. May be you do not know Christ, I recommend him to you this day to have a hold on to him.
John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
The love of God has no limit, He is an embodiment of love and His love is the greatest. For God so loved you and me that He sent Jesus to pay for our sins. No matter what you have done, the gravity of sin you have committed Jesus will make you whole. His main aim is to give your soul rest and put to flight all your burdens. He is the only one that can revive that dead marriage, give you hope, straighten the crooked path. He is ever ready for you, all you have to do is to confess Him as Lord of your life
{john 1:12, 3:5-6}12Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children 5Jesus answered, “I tell you the truth, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless he is born of water and the Spirit. 6Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit. You need to be born again through the renewing of your mind and ways, to share in this glorious kingdom. [2corithins 5.17]17Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come
Jesus is still in the business of setting people free from death and translating them into life. After this life the is only two places for your soul, it is either Hell or Heaven. Hell is for those who do not know Christ or those who have head of Him but rejected Him.
[luke16:21-23]20At his gate was laid a beggar named Lazarus, covered with sores 21and longing to eat what fell from the rich man’s table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores. 22″The time came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried. 23In hell, where he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his side. 24So he called to him, ‘Father Abraham, have pity on me and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, because I am in agony in this fire.’
If you do not have Christ, you are heading towards eternal distraction. Hell is a place of pain, hurt, disgrace, everlasting suffering, and regret. Do not be deceived, Hell is not a state of being but a literal place of burning sulfur, which exists beyond the reach of the physical]
Daniel 12.22Multitudes who sleep in the dust of the earth will awake: some to everlasting life, others to shame and everlasting contempt.
Heaven is for those who have Christ and have walked in his principles faithfully, it is a place of peace, feasting, celebration, joy, reward and eternal life. Heaven is a glorious place with streets of gold and mansion, the beauty of heaven is beyond the imaginations of men. The choice is yours to either be with Jesus Christ in heaven or to go to hell where the is suffering.
Jesus is light. He is light and a lamp to those who have him. He becomes your wisdom and security to guard and guide you in all thing pertaining to life and Godliness. [1coritains 1.24]24But to those whom God has called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God.
Many who have come to him are still with him because he has never disappointed them nor failed on his promises.If this day you will open your heart and let him in, it doesn’t matter who you are, it doesn’t matter where you have been and it doesn’t matter what you have done Jesus is suffering calling, it because of who he is and because of where his been you can start all over again. if you are ready to start all over again just pray this prayer
Dear lord am a sinner, and believing that the Lord Jesus Christ died for my sins on the cross and was raised for my justification, l do now receive and confess him as my lord and personal Saviour
May be you just dedicated your marriage to God or you just gave your life Christ you can do the following as couple or as an individual to make Christ the center of your marital life or personal life.
Pray together as couple or as an individual
[1 Thessalonians 5.17-18]16Be joyful always;
17 pray continually; 18 give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
Pray at all times, pray for the growth and well-being of your marriage and life. Go for prayer meetings and have special prayer and fasting as an individual or couple.
Read and study the bible.
[Joshua 1.8]8Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.
Have family quite times, teach your children the principles of God. Join others in worship. May be you just got born again I edge you find a bible believing church near you and fellowship with them and if you are already a believer I edge you also to be in church always with you family.
